Finding a couple for threesomes in real life is not an easy task for you, so that you should be prepared for a long battle. It’s not appropriate to ask a couple if they would like to make a threesome dating with you every time you see them in bars or parties. You have to see if they're looking around at single people and then you can come to them asking if they are interested in something exciting with you. You may be refused by many couples at the beginning while you will be able to get to know which couple is seeking a partner for threesomes and which is not after a period of practice.
However, not every couple who is planning a threesome lifestyle can be your partner. Some couples like to make a FFM threesome while some couples prefer a MMF threesome. So, you only need to pay attention to those couples being willing to arrange a swinger lifestyle with you and you can keep in touch with them. During the interaction with them, you can get to know each other better and better and you will make friends with them even if you don’t make dates with them in the end.
If you are using online dating apps to find threesome partners, there are some differences.
For the first, you cannot meet real people until you make an off line dating with them. Therefore, you’d better contact couples who have improved their profiles with detailed information and real photos. Generally, fake users and scammers are not willing to take time to complete all the steps because they would rather to spend time on other places. In the meanwhile, you will find it is much easier for you to find couples who share the common interest with you on dating apps and you also will be able to exchange experience with them about threesomes.
From the moment you decide to live a swinger lifestyle with a couple, you cannot give this great idea up no matter how many difficulties you will encounter on the way. If you persist and succeed in finding your perfect partner in the end, then you can enjoy a fantasy threesome life as you wish.